Affection Library

Most couples aren’t having a hundred arguments.
They’re having one, repeatedly.

A small library of practical, evidence-based guides for two people who want to stop having that argument — written warmly, without jargon, and without pretending love is a personality trait you either have or don’t.

Take the check-in — free What’s inside

Twenty questions · three minutes · no email needed to see your result

Where to start

The check-in

Twenty questions across five areas — how you handle heat, what you are built on, how things pass between you, how close you can stand to be, and why you are here at all. You get a straight answer about which one is taking the strain.

01

Heat


Keeping the temperature steady when it rises.

02

Foundations


Knowing what you are built on, and what you repeat.

03

Doors


How things pass between you.

04

Walls


Being close without losing your own shape.

05

Keys


Why you are here at all.

The catalogue

Volume one is being written


The first book is in the final draft. The check-in is finished and free, and if you take it we will let you know the day the book is ready — along with the first chapter to read before you decide anything.

Start with the check-in